You hurt me. Not with words, but by withholding them when I needed them most.
You hurt me when you walked away.
You took with you my dreams, my hopes and my passion.
You scarred me with the ill-chosen words you did choose to use when you allowed anger to guide you, and your eyes to be closed to compassion.
You turned your back on me when I needed someone to prop me up.
I needed to lean on you, and you let me fall and I struggle to believe that it wasn’t deliberate.
You knew I was treading water, yet you threw me no lifelines. You responded to my cries for help with anger.
Were you angry at me for being weak? Or angry at yourself for being ill equipped to deal with the onslaught of emotion that I bring to the table?
Some say that you were not ever able to deal with me emotionally, but I call bullshit. You always knew exactly what you were doing.
I know I’m pretty full on but you knew that from the very beginning.
This was always all about control, and power and winning no matter the cost. It was about arrogance and selfishness.
I want to hate you for this and for all the rest of the pain you have caused me over the years, but hate is such a strong force that I don’t want to allow it in to poison me. Because I know it will damage me irreparably.
Part of me wants to find out what I need to do to cause you the same level of hurt and pain that you’ve caused me, but I know deep down that revenge is never the answer.
I’ve held onto enough pain to last me a lifetime and it’s starting to make me physically ill so it’s time to let it all go.
It’s time for me to move on and allow healing to begin.
You’ve left me damaged, but not broken. Cautious but not so much that I’ll never be able to let someone in again.
You don’t deserve that much power over me.
Your neglect of our relationship, of our history and our connection hasn’t left me feeling as cold as it I would’ve expected.
It has pushed me closer to Jesus. To the one who will never be disappointed in me.
The one who will never crush me with angry words, the one who will never abandon me.
So thank you. Thank you for teaching me that it was always foolish to expect a human to be what only God can be.
Faithful, true, honest, loving and kind.
All the things you’re not.